I have no shame. None at all. If my son is hungry and needs a snack/ meal/ comfort/ whatever…I will give him what he wants. More than not, that requires me to “expose” myself.
I do it gladly. I do it without hesitation. I do it without a cover.
I breastfeed.
My son isn’t screaming. He is happy. He will smile and wave at you when he is done with his “boba”.
He (generally) won’t make a fuss. Nor, is he “one of those damn toddler brats”.
But, somehow, what I do is “gross” and “disgusting” and should be kept away from public eyes.
I will “scare children” and cause “uncomfortable discussions”.
But, I do not care what you think. Or, how my feeding my son is somehow not acceptable. I will do it as long as I see fit. And yes, when I nurse him (even in public) the world is shut out of my mind. The only thing that matters is him, and what HIS needs are.
Let me tell you this: if you do not like, approve of what I am doing…don’t look. Don’t criticize me for my parting choice. I do not look down on you because you use formula. Or that you choose to roll your eyes and impatiently try to deal with a temper tantrum of toddler proportions.
You do your thing. And I’ll do mine.
Instead of looking at me and thinking to yourself: “Ugh. Why is she doing that where everyone can see?” You should probably ask: “Why does this matter to me?” Maybe then people can understand to mind their business and stop focusing on my boobs.